Dilemma
HandWritten on; 8.19.2008
Do you know the feeling of having no confidence towards a person? I mean, distrust is more dominant than trust, though you both know that you should be open with each other? It's like keeping a secret in order to protect someone or something? Man, it sucks, right? Well, this isn't really my story actually. It's from a friend of mine regarding her issues on lovelife. I'll just keep their identity for privacy purposes. So, game?
My BFF has a bestfriend (the guy) which is also his highschool classmate. And the guy has his girlfriend(the girl) who happened also to be their classmate. To make the story short, until now, they're still committed, but both are not in good terms. So this is the issue, the girl is like being possessive and suspicious, i mean, whenever the guy puts gel over his hair, very well-groomed or things like these, she'll hella freak out! lol,exaggerated..but i know that you know it's half meant. Petty fights begin with small things like these. She doesn't want other girls to like her guy. Because of such frequent arguments, their relationship became monotonous and cold, which results for the guy's unfaithfulness, well sort of. He starts to like some other girls, but i know he still loves her girl. I hope?
Well, the dilemma is really tied to me. The girl send me a very looong message regarding her problem, which i already know because my BFF told me their story. She asked me if i can be her confidant. Being a girl and the best friend of her BF's best friend(get it?), i was her last and only resort to find out if her guy is goofing around with somebody else.
Well, i know "some" of her guy's white lies, misbehaviors and crimes but my BFF's friendship with his bestfriend would be at stake if ever i tell a thing to the girl. get what i mean? Bear with me, it's real confusing but try to contemplate with what i'm trying to express. lol. Though the guy commit these things, my BFF still persuades me that the guy assures that he still loves his girl, he's loyal and he can't leave her. But who's convinced? I'm no convinced. Why would he do such lies and "girl-hunting" acts if he's genuine and loyal to his girl? Ironic, man. Try to think of a better alibi next time.
I want to help and comfort the girl because i know what she's going through. I'm a girl, i understand her situation. I once literally felt that pain, and it's deep from the heart. ooh, the pain, unbearable man! lol. ya'know? On the other hand, i have this BFF who asked me NOT to tell anything because everything will just end worsen. Got his point though. He just told me to tell advices and encouragements that will help improve their relationship. We'll not join their problem, instead we'll let the guy tell everything to the girl, but NOT me. And I understand what he's trying to pinpoint.
I replied to her message and told her everything positive to give her hope and make her realize that nagging is no better solution and open communication is the only formula for their problem right now. I hope that these would help them and make their relationship stronger than before.
sigh. i realized one thing. it sucks to be a love doctor. bigtime.
haha, i don't know. Being stucked between two ideas? Darn, it drive me nuts! haha.
[xs] Darn Hell Week!
My BFF has a bestfriend (the guy) which is also his highschool classmate. And the guy has his girlfriend(the girl) who happened also to be their classmate. To make the story short, until now, they're still committed, but both are not in good terms. So this is the issue, the girl is like being possessive and suspicious, i mean, whenever the guy puts gel over his hair, very well-groomed or things like these, she'll hella freak out! lol,exaggerated..but i know that you know it's half meant. Petty fights begin with small things like these. She doesn't want other girls to like her guy. Because of such frequent arguments, their relationship became monotonous and cold, which results for the guy's unfaithfulness, well sort of. He starts to like some other girls, but i know he still loves her girl. I hope?
Well, the dilemma is really tied to me. The girl send me a very looong message regarding her problem, which i already know because my BFF told me their story. She asked me if i can be her confidant. Being a girl and the best friend of her BF's best friend(get it?), i was her last and only resort to find out if her guy is goofing around with somebody else.
Well, i know "some" of her guy's white lies, misbehaviors and crimes but my BFF's friendship with his bestfriend would be at stake if ever i tell a thing to the girl. get what i mean? Bear with me, it's real confusing but try to contemplate with what i'm trying to express. lol. Though the guy commit these things, my BFF still persuades me that the guy assures that he still loves his girl, he's loyal and he can't leave her. But who's convinced? I'm no convinced. Why would he do such lies and "girl-hunting" acts if he's genuine and loyal to his girl? Ironic, man. Try to think of a better alibi next time.
I want to help and comfort the girl because i know what she's going through. I'm a girl, i understand her situation. I once literally felt that pain, and it's deep from the heart. ooh, the pain, unbearable man! lol. ya'know? On the other hand, i have this BFF who asked me NOT to tell anything because everything will just end worsen. Got his point though. He just told me to tell advices and encouragements that will help improve their relationship. We'll not join their problem, instead we'll let the guy tell everything to the girl, but NOT me. And I understand what he's trying to pinpoint.
I replied to her message and told her everything positive to give her hope and make her realize that nagging is no better solution and open communication is the only formula for their problem right now. I hope that these would help them and make their relationship stronger than before.
sigh. i realized one thing. it sucks to be a love doctor. bigtime.
haha, i don't know. Being stucked between two ideas? Darn, it drive me nuts! haha.
[xs] Darn Hell Week!